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Online Tools that Help Teach Kids Money

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As host of the #cdnmoney chat on Twitter every Wednesday night at 7 pm, it is important for me that we have real conversations about things that matter. Money matters. Last night we talked about kids and money. It really was a good conversation and so many people had great ideas on teaching our kids about money. So what do we do when we feel a little lost in how to teach kids about money? There are some great games and other online tools that help teach kids these important concepts but remember like I said yesterday they will model what you do.

SandDollarCity.com, is for the 8-12 crowd, it is an online game set in an underwater village where kids manage a candy shop. It is a lot like Facebook’s popular Farmville and similar simulation games, it lets kids buy inventory, make store upgrades, handle expenses, etc.

Savings Quest is another online  game in which your child chooses a job, earns a paycheck, and chooses a savings goal. He must build a budget and handle other aspects of personal finances. Over a six month period (in the game, not in real life) he will have to work, handle expenses and save for a goal. This game can give your kids real life experience, it throws unexpected expenses at you just like in real life. Again this would be for that 8-12 crowd.

The Mint believes in educating American children about money because the lessons on saving and debt need to be urgently learned. The site has sections tailor-made for kids, teens, parents, and teachers. The tools consist of games that are built around earning, saving, spending, and giving. Lessons on how money moves are also imparted in an easy to grasp language.  Many of the lessons taught are perfect for our Canadian kids as well.

Planet Orange is a cool Canadian interactive financial game that reaches out to those in the 6-10 crowd. Kids can Join Cedric and Amy as they help them navigate the deep reaches of space and learn all about earning, spending, saving and investing. The game involves activities that focus on different features of money and the choices you have to make for completing the mission.

BMO Smart Steps, well it might not have all the bells and whistles for fun online gaming like those above, it is full of knowledge and great tips that will help you learn and teach important skills to your children all the way to adulthood.

Remember knowledge is power and we want our children to have money smarts so it is up to us as parents to teach money and have those all so important conversations. I hope these tools can help in a small way. So what are you teaching your children about money?

Will It Ever Stop?

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Will it stop?

Will it ever end?

Is there anyway I can make it better?

Can I make it go away?

Another day, another child bullied once again. Another dead teen. Will my teen be next?

I think I can remember the first time my daughter was bullied at school so much it made her cry. It was a fall day and her grade 2 year was just beginning. She came home at lunch and laid her head on the table and asked me. “Mom, why are the kids so mean?” I asked her to explain, my daughter being the perceptive kid that she is  said “They won’t play with me, they call me names”. Exclusion began at an early age for my girl.

By the time we got to grade 5 there had been several incidents but none prepared us for what lied ahead. We moved to small town Nova Scotia, where I thought my daughter would thrive, but instead my daughter went through a year of what I refer to as hell on earth. Early in the year she tried to befriend 2 sisters who lived down the street, she invited them to our house, there was an incident ( one of the girls stole from a change dish that I kept out), after that the hell began. Two weeks later, these girls and a small army of 8 fellow 10 and 11 year olds, beat my daughter on her way home from school, just steps off school property. She had bruises and cuts that reminded her for weeks what had happened. Teasing, taunting, fear all became apart of my daughter’s life. The school principal did not take it seriously, nor did the trustees, and the police, well they told me there was little they could do until the kids turn 12. So I blogged it, wrote the newspaper, and prayed. At the end of grade 5 I had had enough so decided to move to Halifax.

A new school, a new year, or so I prayed, but again the bullying began. This time it wasn’t the physical harm. There was just the teasing and the taunts, the exclusion. Those things matter and leave emotional scars that I think are far worse than the physical ones sometimes.

So we moved again, back to Toronto, and the TDSB where I had had some success in getting my dear daughter feeling like she mattered, feeling like she belonged. After years of abuse at the hands of the bullies though, I began to feel like I was losing my daughter. Rarely does she genuinely smile and laugh and her thoughts take her to very dark places. Last year she became the bully when she reacted to the taunts and teasing of other kids, so much so that she was unwelcome at her school. For the last 2 months of the 2010-2011 school year, my daughter was excluded from an education because the board could not meet her needs.

Now this week, after the best start to a school year she has had in years, there was an incident, hair was pulled, words spoken, the investigation is still ongoing but I am a mom who fears for her daughter and the days ahead.

Yesterday the school psychologist called, they have just finished the assessment that they did. It is clear that my daughter has a learning disability, it has to do with processing. She is not autistic or on the spectrum, there may be signs of ADHD, but what worries the psychologist most is my daughter’s mental health. I am a  mom who is drawing a conclusion here the years of bullying have left a huge emotional dent in my daughter, depression is at the door. So I think I have the right to worry, as I see the toll bullying is taking on our kids.

I ask myself every day, will it end? How can I help her to have a good day.

Does bullying concern you?

What do you think can be done?

 

 

 

Fall Brings Me Bliss

 

Fall is my favorite time of year here in Toronto, what is your favorite Season?

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The simple things can bring bliss, like playing in the leaves.

Forgetting You Not

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My grandmother Alice Simmons Stewart Pollard was the most amazing woman, and here I am 5 years later and I miss her so very much.

I remember well the lessons I learned in her kitchen. You see my parents divorced when I was young and I spent a good chunk of time in her kitchen.

She taught me when things are at the darkest, there is a light a coming.

She taught me to be thankful for what I do have.

She taught me to be a smart shopper.

She taught me the importance of family ties.

She taught me how to make the best Toads in the Hole.

I will forever be thankful for the amazing lessons I learned from this amazing grandmother. I pray you are resting in peace.

A Night Out at Nuite Blanche

What a night out, last night was. I decided to go explore the city, because it was that one night of the year when my frugal self and my art loving self can collide. I absolutely love Nuite Blanche. I love getting out and enjoying the sights, the people and of course the art.

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Slip stream at the Eaton Center was beautiful at twilight. the mall was already cazy packed and it was still early in the night.

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Headed over to Nathan Phillip square for the Flight Path and Flight school but even early in the evening there was a huge line. So moved on.

Headed down to the Free Shop, this was the only place I stood in line. I waited ever so patiently to meet the artist Basil Alzeri.

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Why is it that we have so much attachment to our stuff? After waiting and actually choosing something I wanted from his store of all his life’s possessions, I chose a beautiful pink Sari that he had handpicked in the Indian market in the UAE. How cool is that? So now I own a beautiful pink Sari. As I left the installation I bumped into two of Basil’s friends who explained how he had literally brought all of his worldly possessions from his apartment, minus his bed, laptop and camera. I wonder what he was left with this morning.

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After watching that time to get back to the art.

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The Bone Dump was just that..a pile of porcelin bones.

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I just know something good is going to happen really did look like a movie set but I wasn’t so sure I wanted to get wet so decided to watch instead.

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My final stop for the night was Egerton Falls on the Ryerson University campus, a peaceful way to end the night when I found out I won a dinner cruise from WagJag for participating in their twarty. So who wants to go on another adventure with me as I cruise the harbor?

Making Time for Family Fun

0351 300x300 Making Time for Family Fun Most of us who are parents right now are settling back into routines and things of that nature so there is much that must be tackled. If your house is anything like mine it sure is easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle and forget to stop with the hustle and simply stop and have some family fun, some play time.

One of the most important things we do or try to do every day is tackle fun. I make it a point to spend part of our day simply in play and since I parent a young teen that is not always an easy thing to do let me tell you.

Whether it be something as simple as Egging my daughter, with a Kinder Egg that she still finds to be fun and yummy so we have a bonus with that one, to getting her to play creatively with our dinner menu when it is her turn to cook, to sharing a video, or a really good song we try and take time to simply have a little fun and to have some daily play time.

One of our favorite joint activites is to pull out a board game. My young teen still loves these thank goodness! We have spent many an hour tackling a good game of Monopoly or Risk.

I am grateful that play and fun do not have to cost alot, and well it sure helps us save our sanity.

Now getting back to egging my daughter with Kinder Eggs, it is something I have done since she was little and she has loved it and I am so thankful that I can say I am a #kindermom.

Have you checked out their Facebook Page yet? They are giving away  ten $200 Kinder gift baskets? Draw is October 12th! Think of the fun you could have with that.

How do you tackle play and family fun?

*Disclosure: I’m part of the KINDER® Mom program and I receive special perks as part of my affiliation with this group. The opinions on this blog are my own.

*this post will be shared as Tackle Tuesday on 5 Minutes for Mom.

Eid Mubarak!

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In many places around the globe the moon was spottted yesterday making today Eid. There are strong hadiths that support a global moon sighting so I go with that. Now for many Muslims here in Toronto Eid will be tomorrow because there was no moon sighted in the GTA.

I want to wish each of my Muslim readers a very blessed Eid Mubarak. Happy Eid! May Allah keep us all steadfast and accept our niyyah, saum & ibadah this Ramadan.

How are you celebrating your Eid?

For us my daughter and I will be at the Convention Center here in Toronto with thousands of other Muslims, praying together, we will then attend the Eid Festival there and then come home for a small Eid feast that I have prepared. For those of you celebrating, may it be a time of family, friends and good tidings.

A Thank You Post

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It all started at #PlaybookTO an event hosted by Blackberry to launch the Blackberry Playbook. They hosted a twitter contest, and I was lucky enough to be one of 50 winners of the new Playbook.  I got to take 3 girlfriends and get my playbook We also got to play and learn the Playbook.

Well it was late in the night Wednesday, when I told my girlfriends my plan on using my playbook which I love for something better–getting Rachel to summer camp. They thought it was a cool idea so in the wee hours of Thursday morning I posted that I was going to give my Playbook to someone who helped me get Rachel the summer she deserved.

What happened next was awe-inspiring, breathtaking and brought pure bliss to my 13 yr old daughter. People we knew and didn’t know tweeted and retweeted the post. So many gave both big and small amounts. Thank You so much Sheldon, Henry, Shasha, Jacki, Marcia, Linda, Beth, Sue, Kathy, Gerrit, Lori, Julie, Mara, Gloria, Marcy, Tamara, Kim, Heather, Daniel, Michelle, Melany, Shawn, Kimberly, Shawn, Frank, Sharon, Leah, Gerrit, Cow and Moon Paper Co, AHaz Desings, DCDG Development, Edley Imagineering,Ripple Connection, and Scott.

And then a couple of things happened yesterday that brought smiles and joy and as the day wore on. First I think there was more than one person who contacted the Blackberry team about my post. Sara from Urban Mom, I do know got through and by the end of the day there was an email from Carolyn at Blackberry that made me want to cry, it seemed the team there read the post, loved the idea, and wanted me still to have a Playbook so they are replacing the Playbook.Thank-you Blackberry!

Two of my other friends, and I do consider both of these people friends Scott  gave Rachel and I a Season pass to Wonderland. When I told Rachel this morning she was excited! She can’t wait for all the looping rides and I think I am going to have a heart attack at the thought of one. My other friend Mara decided to share a win she had recently with Kobo and gave Rachel a GC for Kobo Books. Rachel has already added her summer reading to our Kobo desktop. Thank you Scott and Mara.

For each of you who came read the post, sent retweets, shared the post, sent good vibes, and wishes and helped along the way I say thank-you! Those words do not seem enough to echo what is in my heart, it is full of  thanks to the wonderful community Rachel and I find ourselves apart of.

We will definitely be posting Rachel’s AWESOME summer here on the blog, on twitter, and on my Facebook account. Thanks Again!

Wordless Wednesday: Carlsbad Caverns

Some of you know that myt dear daughter was born in Carlsbad New Mexico where I lived with my now ex-husband. I loved living in Carlsbad. Really of all the places I have been this place ranks pretty high for me. One of my favorite things about Carlsbad are the Carlsbad Caverns that are just minutes from town. 3211342745 9da03a1ff7 z Wordless Wednesday: Carlsbad Caverns

You decend into the caves on this windy path.

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Just a little warning before you start your journey.

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Just a stop at the info desk to figure out what path to take.Then it is off to enjoy the beauty of the caves. There are several rooms.

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Or this type, they take your breath away.

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Over 450,00 Mexican Free-tail bats ascend out of the cave nightly from May to October.

Personally I think this American National Park is a treasure and a testament to God’s beauty and design.I  am grateful that the last time I hiked down in here Rachel was with me, yes she was a babe in a backpark but before we left Carlsbad this was a must do for me..I am so glad we did it together.

My Day At the CBC

A couple of weeks ago I got an email in my inbox, it was the CBC inviting me to be part of a very special day at the CBC. They were bringing Social Media Moms in from across Canada to discuss children programming and the CBC. I was excited to be included in this group of women as we have watched the CBC and are huge supporters in our house.

Well my day at the CBC actually began the day before when I got to meet up with Jody from Mommy Moment who had flown in from Manitoba ( my old stomping grounds in my youth). I was able to show her a few sites like the CN Tower and St. Lawerence Market, and we grabbed a bite to eat and got to know each other.

Then Thursday began bright and early as I headed down to Union Station to meet Shannon from who as she says is GPS challenged. then it was off to the Intercontinental to gather up Jody and Tammy from My Organized Chaos and Lynnette from My Wee View. From there it was off to the CBC. We grabbed a quick coffee and breakfast in the building where we met up with several other bloggers.

 My Day At the CBC

On the set of Steven and Chris

First on the agenda. We got to spend some time watching a taping of Steven and Chris. Guess who the guest of honor was? Jillian Michaels from the Biggest Loser. She has written a new book and is currently on a book tour promoting it.  Her new book is called Unlimited How to Build an Exceptional Life. She even answered some questions and one was about a 13 year old girl who was being bullied, sound familiar? What she recommends for girls just like my Rachel: take a stand and use your body language to say NO.  One of the other segment I really enjoyed was about creating a salad bowl ( a mini garden for small spaces-I think my mom would love this for her new small balcony). We came home with Jillian’s book and skincare from Amway.

After that we were whisked to the kids area of the CBC, where they had a wonderful lunch of sweet sandwiches, veggies and fruit, and the cutest cake. We got to mix and mingle with the staff behind Kids CBC. I had a great conversation with Kim Wilson Creative Head for Children and Youth Programming. We talked about the cuts and the lack of after school programming for school age kids.  She shared with me a project they are hoping to get funding for: a 24 hour CBC kids channel! Could it be? At that time school age, age appropriate programming would be available for our older school age kids as well. I really do hope they get the funding.

As well as talking the brains behind Kids CBC we got to mix with other great mom bloggers and some CBC celebs as well. I had a great conversation with Dwight Drummond about bullying.

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After lunch we got to see the set of Kids CBC and learn some very interesting facts about the CBC:

Did you know the have a developmental psychologist on staff? As some one who taught daycare for 15 years I was so glad to hear this as you can guarantee age appropriate content.

They have a new series coming up soon called Napkin Man.

The other thing this frugal mom loves the Kids CBC hosts several free events across Canada every year, and you know I love free, right.

As we were in the Kids CBC, Patty Sullivan came in from maternity leave to meet and greet us, as well as Mamma Yamma and her puppeteer Ali Eisner.

 My Day At the CBC

Asking Mamma Yamma for her Frugal Tip

As the Tweet Up was coming to an end I got to interview Mamma Yamma and Patty Sullivan, asking then for their frugal tips. Come back tomorrow because I am going to share their tips and I have a give away.

After the Tweet Up, I stopped by Mr. Dress Up’s Treehouse to check and see if Casey or Finnegan were home. They weren’t. Then it was off to watch George Stroumboulopoulos. We got to meet him before the show and we had a brief conversation about the World Food Program, and got to have a picture taken with him.

 My Day At the CBC

Me and @Strombo

It truly was a great day at the CBC. I had so much fun, learned alot and even  came home with a giveaway and some frugal tips so please do stop by tomorrow to learn what Mamma Yamma and Patty Sullivan do to stay frugal.