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Online Tools that Help Teach Kids Money

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As host of the #cdnmoney chat on Twitter every Wednesday night at 7 pm, it is important for me that we have real conversations about things that matter. Money matters. Last night we talked about kids and money. It really was a good conversation and so many people had great ideas on teaching our kids about money. So what do we do when we feel a little lost in how to teach kids about money? There are some great games and other online tools that help teach kids these important concepts but remember like I said yesterday they will model what you do.

SandDollarCity.com, is for the 8-12 crowd, it is an online game set in an underwater village where kids manage a candy shop. It is a lot like Facebook’s popular Farmville and similar simulation games, it lets kids buy inventory, make store upgrades, handle expenses, etc.

Savings Quest is another online  game in which your child chooses a job, earns a paycheck, and chooses a savings goal. He must build a budget and handle other aspects of personal finances. Over a six month period (in the game, not in real life) he will have to work, handle expenses and save for a goal. This game can give your kids real life experience, it throws unexpected expenses at you just like in real life. Again this would be for that 8-12 crowd.

The Mint believes in educating American children about money because the lessons on saving and debt need to be urgently learned. The site has sections tailor-made for kids, teens, parents, and teachers. The tools consist of games that are built around earning, saving, spending, and giving. Lessons on how money moves are also imparted in an easy to grasp language.  Many of the lessons taught are perfect for our Canadian kids as well.

Planet Orange is a cool Canadian interactive financial game that reaches out to those in the 6-10 crowd. Kids can Join Cedric and Amy as they help them navigate the deep reaches of space and learn all about earning, spending, saving and investing. The game involves activities that focus on different features of money and the choices you have to make for completing the mission.

BMO Smart Steps, well it might not have all the bells and whistles for fun online gaming like those above, it is full of knowledge and great tips that will help you learn and teach important skills to your children all the way to adulthood.

Remember knowledge is power and we want our children to have money smarts so it is up to us as parents to teach money and have those all so important conversations. I hope these tools can help in a small way. So what are you teaching your children about money?

Monkey See Monkey Do – Teaching Kids Money

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Have you ever said to your teen money doesn’t grow on  trees you know? I have. After reading a recent  Post article on kids and money I am realizing how early we need to be teaching our kids some money skills. So what do kids need to know? For my teen age daughter I have been giving her an allowance for years now and there are certain expectations that go with it, as well we have had regular money conversations in our house. So what is it important for our kids to know? What do you want your child to know and how are you teaching them?

Kids will model our behaviors whether we like it or not, really it is a monkey see monkey do world. So if you do not have good money habits, it is likely your kids won’t have a clue either. So if you don’t have the skills learn them, and let your kids see you learning. Rachel regularly sees me devouring money materials. She has seen me learn to budget, calculate costs, smart shop and more. We want to model skills that will help our children in the long run.

So what do kids need to know.

1. They need to know money comes from earning it. Has your child had their first paid gig yet? Rachel’s first money earning gig was shovelling a neighbours walk. She earned $5. She thought that was a lot. She was 9.

2. They need to know how to save. Do they want something? Get an allowance? Let them save to get it, they will appreciate it so much more and they learn a great skill at the same time.Show them how to bank.

3. Thy need to know how to budget. I share my budget with my daughter and she helps me even with the shopping, she is learning what things cost and won’t have sticker shock when it comes time to move out.

4. They need to know the dangers of borrowing. Interest is a pain and has a high cost. I am trying to teach Rachel to live as debt free as possible. Carrying debt is a burden I don’t want her to know. I shared with her my bankruptcy and my mistakes so hopefully she can learn from that as well.

What do you think it is important for your kids to know when it comes to money and how are you teaching them?

 

 

Creating the Perfect Costume

All last week I promised my 13-year-old daughter I would take her shopping, costume shopping that is. usually we have created her costumes over the years from stuff at home. Frugal, smart, maybe, cheap yes! But this year she considers it her real last year to go trick or treating so she wanted and wants the perfect costume. She saved and budgeted for it. She dreamed it, and then when her school decided that it would be turning the school into a haunted doll house for Halloween she knew she just had to be a bat queen.She says she can hang out near the roof.

I think her desire to be a bat might come from being born in Carlsbad, New Mexico where thousands of bats make a nightly flight.

So bat queen shopping we went. First store we hit market themselves as the largest costume store in Canada..as we hunted for perfection my dear daughter started to get angry with what she saw. As she tried on costume after costume, the more frustrated she got.

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Can you see the issues she might be having? Everything was too short. Too sexy. My dear daughter said and I quote” Everything makes me look like a Halloween Hooker”

Since when do we even have to sexualized costumes for tweens? and I even saw some for younger kids as well? Do you, do I really need to send my daughter out the door looking like a tramp?

My dear daughter and I left store A and went to store B which was a brand new Halloween store that opened right near my daughter’s school. Again there were the Halloween hooker outfits as Rachel called them. At this store Rachel looked over to the boys costumes and said “Mom why is it that boys get decent costumes that can cover a body while us girls get garbage?”

We went on to store C a major retail chain store that is both American and Canadian and again it was more of the same.

My tween came home without a costume, and frustrated because she had this vision.

So after our morning in High Park yesterday, we headed to Value Village on the suggestion of one of my twitter friends..Again we saw the Halloween Hooker outfits but we found other options as well especially in the used area. Finally she found her perfect black dress..she then found bat wings. She now has purple and black tights, a black dress, wings, a purple necklace and a crown..so finally after much searching we were able to make her costume dream a reality.

But what is with the sexualization of our kids costumes? What do you think when you take your teen, tween or teen to get a costume these days, especially if you have a daughter. How are you able to get your daughter a costume that is decent? What have you had to do?

If young teens are noticing the sexualization of the costumes shouldn’t we as parents be saying a bit more?

 

 

9 Ideas for a Frugal March Break

2038739300 33d860112c 9 Ideas for a Frugal March BreakSpring break is coming to Toronto and if you are a mom like me you want to have a plan to keep the kids busy. For me I have a brand new teen (Rachel just turned 13) so we are looking forward to going to some events that are geared just for her age range.

What are some great frugal activities that you can have some family fun at this spring break?

1. The Toronto Public Library has many great events planned for the week ahead. Rachel wants to try out a dance class, and of course they have a couple of art activities (amine drawing and jewelery making) that she wants to try out.

2.Since Rachel loves art, we are headed to the AGO. They have some free hours on Wednesday (special exhibits are exculded).

3. At the TIFF Lightbox we are going to the Tim Burton Exhibit and enjoy the free activities that are offered every weekend from 11:30-3:30. They are recommended for ages 8+

4. Rachel is into photography  as well so we are headed to the Allan Garden Conservatory. A great chance to explore the gardens and think spring and take some photos.If your kids are into flowers might be a great place to explore.

5. Movies are a great bet too especially when they are only $2. Empire Theater have their Toonie Matinees back.We are planning on hitting a flick.

6. One of the other things we love is swimming. Here in Toronto Parks and rec offers some free swins and Tim Hortons is sponsoring many throughout the province.

7. A great idea for the 6–10 yr old crowd is a visit to the Legislative Building. They can try on the old black robes and participate in a scavenger hunt around the building. Registration for this event is required.

8. For the animal loving kids there is always a trip to the free zoos. At the High Park Zoo you can find many exotic animals. Where Riverdale Farm is a working farm right in the city. Both of these places were favorites of my daughter when she was younger.

9. Over the years at least one day was spent at the Shops on Steeles as they have a program that is chalked full for kids. Most days it contains a free lunch as well for kids 12 and under.

Now I am done tackling our spring break plans, time to get to the mountain of laundry in the hamper.

 

Friday Freebie: Online Resources and Entertainment for Your Kids

I am a single mom of one very busy active 11 year old girl who loves her computer. She loves coming on and playing games, goggling stuff she wants to know about, and watching You Tube videos, and cartoons that we find online. Almost everything Roo does online she does for FREE. Her computer time is about 1 hour a day after school unless she is working on educational sites..so what does Roo recommend?

Roo’s top 5 FREE sites that she either has visited while growing up and her current favorites are listed below.

1.Teletoon ( Roo loves the games here).

2.Club Penguin ( Roo has had both free and paid memberships here–it came out of her allowance.

3. Link to Learning (If you live in Ontario and have kids this really is a curriculum rich resource that is fun as well. With all the winter storms here Roo has made great use of this site this year.)

4.Starfall ( what a great online reading resource.Roo when learning to read  spent alot of time on this site)

5. Chapmans ( Roo loves the fact that playing games here earns her points that she can trade for real stuff even free ice cream, this site is meant for Canadian kids.)