No one likes getting sick. This year, in the past week it seemed like a large number of my friends were battling cold and flu bugs. At our house, we were as well. It was no fun. No one likes waking up at 2 am in a coughing fit and no one likes taking their little one to the hospital for a brief stay. Both happened in our house last week. So how can you survive cold and flu season on a budget?
With the reality being most of us take unpaid time off to battle the flu or cold, each bout will affect the pocketbook. So how can we best be ready? Prevention matters but when it happens it is best to listen to your body.
The Flu Shot
Flu shots have been proven to lessen symptoms or even help you get through the season flu-free. This year though there are several strains that are resistant to the shot so what is a family to do?
Do yourself and your work/school mates a favour and take the time to heal. Rest. One of the best things you can try to do is sleep. Sleep helps you to build your immunity system and helps fight germs. Sleep is a free way to help your body get better.
Wash Your Hands
Handwashing frequently especially in this season matters. Handwashing helps prevent illness but it also helps it from running through the family as well.
Water is good for you. It helps to flush out impurities. I have been drinking at least 2 litres a day of water. For me I have added a few drops of lemon essential oils to help flush toxins away. Even adding fresh lemon will help.
There are many foods that help fight food and colds. Mushrooms, green tea, sweet potato and chicken soup are on the list. We keep cans of chicken noodle soup stocked just for sick days.
Stock Your Medicine Chest
There is nothing worse than having to do a run to the pharmacy when you feel terrible. I do quarterly checks on our basic meds and stock the cabinet when things are on sale. We buy just enough and I do check the expiry dates. We keep Advil, Neo Citran, Vicks Vapour Rub, Gravol, and a few other medications on hand. Did you know you can often find these for sale? Remember to check your flyer apps like Flipp for sales and rebates. Other apps you may want to check include CheckOut 51 and Caddle.
We also buy Kleenex when it is on sale. Even after using about 3 boxes in our house last week I think I have a few left in my stash.
What are your favourite ways to save and battle a cold or the flu?
It is that time of the year, everyone is celebrating Christmas and the New Year. In our house there are 6 birthdays all within 2 weeks. I live in a house with 3 families and each one of us celebrate 2 birthdays. It’s a busy time of the year. If I extend that just a wee bit, then there is also the birthday of my niece and 3 dear friends. We are a bunch of Capricorns. So let me share with you how we celebrated.
New Year’s Eve and the Bringing in of the New Year
My daughter and I did not want to brave the frigid temperatures that hit Toronto that night so we stayed in. I made up a cheese platter, grabbed some pizzas and we played board games and watched Moana ( We are huge fans of Disney Animation). As it got later we turned on The Rockin New Year’s Eve and rang in the year cuddled up on the Sofa. It was a pretty sweet way to bring in the New Year.
My daughter celebrated her birthday on Tuesday. Since she has a love of everything Japanese we headed out for Ramen for lunch and then headed to Uncle Tetsu’s for dessert. She loved it. I surprised her with the birthday plate. Yes, it was $7.00 extra but work every penny to see her face as they brought her out Matcha cheesecake singing her Happy Birthday. She even got her photo with the girl serving us. She already is planning her next visit. We will continue her birthday celebrations by having some friends over later this month.
A Hospital Visit
Two of the little ones who had birthdays both got very sick over the holidays and the youngest was hospitalized at Sick Kids for a few days. Birthday celebrations for that family have been delayed as we work to get them better.
A Saturday of 2 Celebrations
A dear friend of mine and the little one of the family upstairs both had celebrations on Saturday. Yes, even in the frigid weather that hit Toronto we headed out. First there was a Frozen birthday party for the little princess. Then in the evening I headed to the Jerusalem Restaurant Buffet in North York to help celebrate a friend’s 60th. It was my first time at the restaurant and I enjoyed the food especially the lamb, it was so tender. I was also enthralled with the belly dancing. It was a great night out.
With all the celebrating done though guess who has gotten sick? My daughter caught the bug late on Friday and this morning I woke up not feeling the best. We have been using essential oils to help us feel better. In fact, as I type this there are oils in the diffuser and I put some on my feet as well. Hopefully, we will recover quickly. Tell me, how was your first week of 2018?
Ever had a week or month where you really have the fear of missing out? Life can be unpredictable. With my recent job loss, I have had this intense fear that everything on my bucket list is dreams that can’t happen. I found myself getting discouraged. My bucket is list is long after all. So how did I combat some serious FOMO?
I wrote a reverse bucket list yesterday. I found it brought me into the present and I became thankful and happy with the now. It’s easy especially at this time of year to let the fear of missing out rule the day but a reverse bucket list can help deal with today and the now.
There are real benefits to the reverse bucket list
Did you know being more thankful actually increases your overall well-being?
Think of a reverse bucket list as what you are most grateful for. As our neighbours in America celebrate Thanksgiving it is a perfect time to do this exercise.
Grab a notebook. I love starting fresh with a new journal. Think back. What are you most proud of? What have you achieved? Think of it as travelling back in time. Write down everything you are proud of in your life. What are those major happy memories? What were the best days?
Having issues remembering? Sometimes glancing at old photos, older social media posts will remind us of those events.
Here are a few of my reverse bucket list items
Was the first family member to attend University
Helped feed 5000 on Venice Beach for Thanksgiving and Christmas
Met Bob Hope
Traveled on Via Rail from the East Coast of Canada to the West.
Traveled from Nova Scotia to California on an Epic Road Trip
Created Common Cents Mom
Created the first personal finance chat in Canada on Twitter.
Solo parented an amazing daughter who graduated as an Ontario Scholar
Helped the homeless in LA
I have been featured in a national magazine.
I have been featured in a national newspaper.
After you have written your list
The list can go on and on. Some have short lists others have lists with hundreds of items. The reverse bucket list is an exercise in gratitude. When you step back you should feel a sense of joy, a sense of gratitude and pride for all that you have been blessed to do. It is not a brag list. It is a list of all that has been, all that has been celebrated.
Place your list somewhere you can be reminded of it. Mine is on my night table. In this season of gratitude, I am trying to add to it daily.Sometimes we need to be reminded of our success, the good we have done.
Create your own reverse bucket list and let me know what you were reminded of. Mine reminded me of how even when we have little we can find ways to do much.
It ‘s is that time of year again. Your house is brimming with excitement if it is anything like ours. Halloween is next week, Hard to believe there is less than a week to go until the ghosts and goblins roam the street in search of Halloween treats. This is a busy fun time of the year. Often there are multiple Halloween activities. There are the class parties, the work event. the community event and then there is the night of trick or treating. We love it all! Amongst the busyness though we need to be safe. It is great to love Halloween but we need to think about safety as well. So how do you have a happy and safe Halloween?
The Perfect Costume
When it comes to Halloween, let’s start with the basics, the costume. Make sure all costumes fit well and are labeled flame resistant. Over-sized costumes, capes, and even long tails can become hazards. When you think about what you or your child will be, think bright! It gets dark out there and you want to be seen. If you are wearing something dark, think of adding a reflective strip of wearing glow bracelets or necklaces to help you be seen.
We have a rule in our house, no masks. We use face paint or makeup. Even with face paint or makeup you want to do a patch test to ensure there are no allergies.
I remember the first time my teen carved a pumpkin. She accidentally cut her hand. Accidents can happen. Let children paint or draw the design on pumpkins and leave the carving to a parent. You may choose not to carve a pumpkin. You may decide to decorate one instead. Pinterest has some amazing ideas.
Ever since the invention of LED candles, we do not use candles in our jack-o-lanterns. If you are using candles, never leave them unattended. Don’t have an LED candle? A small flashlight will work as well.
Make sure the outside of your home is well lit and clutter free.
Trick or Treat Safely
There was once a time when it was okay to let kids go trick or treating with their friends. We no longer live in a time when that is a good idea. Make sure a parent goes with any child twelve and under. Ensure children only visit homes where lights are turned on and practice good road safety. Cross the street at corners and crosswalks. Last year, we witnessed a near accident as a child went running across the street between parked cars. Thankfully, the driver was paying attention.
When it comes to candy, eat none till you are home. Parents, check your child’s haul. If there are toys or novelty items ensure there are no choking hazards for any little ones that may reside at your house.
By following these tips you should have a safe and happy Halloween. Did I miss any tips that help your family have a safe Halloween? If so, let me know your tips.
Today is World Mental Health Day. Here on my blog, I have talked about mental health some as like many Canadian families we have struggled with mental health issues and there is a real struggle going on. It has been five years since my teenage daughter had a major mental health episode. It has been five years of recovery. Working on our mental health is something we take as important as our physical health. So how can you improve your mental health?
Give Yourself a Break
Often we are our own worst enemies. We need to treat ourselves with the kindness we would give to others. Avoid self-criticism and show yourself love and respect. Make time for the things that matter to you. Make the things you enjoy a priority. If you love bubble baths like me, take one. Love to take photos, take great shots. Love to read, immerse yourself in a great read.
Look after You
One of the things I have not been great at is looking after myself. The physical me that is. If you want to be healthy mentally, you need to take care of your body. You need to eat healthily. Water intake is also important as is getting enough sleep and exercise. I have also started taking supplements. Sometimes going for a walk is the perfect medicine.
Quiet Your Mind
I am not sure if you are like me but my mind can be going a mile a minute. For me, prayer helps me focus and turn things over to a higher power. For others meditation works. For me, prayer time has become an important daily ritual.
Find Your Tribe
The people you allow in your life become your tribe. Find a support network. If you are feeling friendless, alone, reach out. My teen was feeling this way recently especially right after her graduation. She started attending events that she enjoyed and met some cool new friends. She is now hanging out with them on a weekly basis. They have become a support network for her.
When you give to others, you can not help but feel good. It is also a great way to meet like-minded people. I have met some incredible people when I have volunteered even celebrities so you never know.
When things seem to be spirally out of control, we often isolate ourselves. I know I did but this is the time when we need to be seeking help.
Let me know what do you do to work on your mental health?
This is fire safety week in Canada. It seems like just weeks ago that my little girl and I experienced one of the worst nights of our lives. It was a deadly night. It took just a minute and we had a way out. The young woman who died just a few feet from where my daughter slept normally had no way out. My neighbour was in her early twenties when she died that night. This is Fire Safety Week and often I think back on that night and remember. It takes just a moment to have a way out, it’s even better to plan two ways out.
I remember the firemen at my door, alerting us to the fire (the fire alarm had not gone off), I remember wrapping my daughter in her favorite blanket and carrying her down the stairs. I remember standing on the street with her and watching the fire roar as it ripped through the 30 unit apartment building adjacent to mine. I remember the friend across the street who took us in and let me put my little girl back to sleep. I remember the hotel accommodation thanks to the Red Cross, Dress for Success who ensured I had clothes so I could go to work in a few days. I was blessed that with friends who helped in the days after the fire. It is an event I would never wish on any family.
My young neighbour died because she had no way out. The flames engulfed her unit very quickly. Had she been alerted, she may have been able to use one of the exits available. Like her, we had just moved into the building a few weeks before. We were excited about a new larger place. I hadn’t even thought of an exit plan. Since then, every time we have moved to a new home we develop an exit plan our first few days in the house. We know our two ways out. With this being Fire Safety Week, it may be time to develop your own home fire escape plan.
So how do you develop a home fire escape plan?
Ensure you have working home security smoke alarms on every story and near all sleeping areas. We have one hear my daughter’s room and one near mine. We replace the batteries twice a year. Did you know you should also replace your smoke alarm every ten years?
Develop a home escape plan that is shared with all family members. Each member needs to know where the 2 exits are that they could use in the case of an emergency.
Practice your escape plan with everyone.
Help those who need it. Know who will help who. Who is responsible for the kids? an elderly parent?
Get down and under the smoke. Most deaths are from smoke inhalation.
Assign a meeting spot a safe distance from your home.
Stay out. You never want to re-enter a burning building. Call the fire department from outside your home.
Please take from one who has lived through a fire, you want to have a fire escape plan. Tell me have you developed and practised your plan lately? Now, might be a good time to do so.
Have you ever watched a documentary and it changes the way you think? Ever listen to a speaker and have it have a deep impact? Just over a week ago I was at the Archangel Summit here in Toronto and Dr Stephanie from the Health Loft spoke about fats and sugars. As she spoke I knew she was talking to me. I am a sugar addict and need to deal with my sugar addiction. Since that day I have also watched That Sugar Film on Netflix Canada. It was very insightful.
Many of the ” healthy foods” we eat on a daily basis aren’t all that healthy. For me add to that, I turn to sugar and food for comfort and have since I was a young child. I realized I had an issue and I need to deal with this. As I type this I am in the midst of a sugar detox. No sugars of any kind. Let’s just say my body is definitely reacting to the years of abuse.
As I watched the documentary it did teach me some things I never knew. The average person here in Canada averages 88 pounds of sugar a year. It is literally one in every five calories. If you are at the grocery store and looking at labels 4g= 1 teaspoon. Our kids eat almost double that! The documentary scared me as I do want to have a good number of years ahead of me and diabetes after the age of fifty and heart disease run in my family. Literally, I am a walking time bomb. This has to change and it can
Are you at all worried about how much sugar you are eating?Your family eating? Here are some simple swaps you can make.
Healthy Food Swaps for kids
How am I dealing with my own sugar addiction?
No pop, did you know that just one can a day increases your chance of diabetes by over 20%? I was drinking on average 2 cans a day. Now I am drinking lemon water, carbonated water with lemon (made at home with my Soda Stream) and my herbal teas.
I am eating healthy fats. I wasn’t doing well with these so I am increasing my fish and avocado intake.
There are no white sugars, hidden sugars in my diet currently. I am currently sugar-free. No sugar substitutes either for now but I do know in the days ahead I will add Stevia, Maple sryup, and honey to a small degree.
I threw out 4 bags of food that was full of crap.
Increased my greens and nut consumption.
Are you ready to take a look at the labels and see how they hide sugar or try to give it a healthy name: barley malt, agave nectar, beet sugar, carob syrup, coconut sugar, cane juice, brown sugar, honey, lactose, fructose, high fructose corn syrup, yellow sugar, syrup, rice syrup, confectioner’s sugar, oat syrup, maple syrup, maltose, malt syrup, galactose, ethyl maltol, dextran, and the list goes on. There are over 60 different ways sugar is hidden in the labels of food.
Seriously learning is not about counting calories but more important is making the calorie count. Will they help my body heal?
I will be documenting this journey on my Instagram account mostly if you would like to follow it. I also highly recommend the documentary That Sugar Film on Netflix.
* I am no longer a member of the #streamteam so this post is not sponsored, no payment of any sort was received. My opinions as always are mind. Now go watch this documentary.
Sometimes getting back into a sleep routine is hard work. I know for me as a parent of a teen getting her up early is a huge challenge and when we have a schedule to keep some days it seems like a nightmare. Ever been there? Both my teen and I are working on developing healthy night’s sleep. Did you know for optimal health for adults we need at least seven hours of sleep or more. For kids, they need more. Here are some things that are working for us and they may help your family too:
Tech Time Outs
How many of you sleep with tablets or phones by your bed? Do you check yours right before you to sleep? Do you kids fall asleep watching the latest YouTube video? This was us. We have instituted a new tech time out rule. We are 3 weeks into it. My phone stays on my desk, it’s no longer near my bed. My teen turns off her tech an hour before bedtime. This becomes our no screen time. For us it has been allowing us to chill as my teen says.
Make Lunches and Layout Clothes the Night Before
How many of you feel mornings are hectic? Some mornings I have to be out of the house at 5:45 am. Yes, that is early! To get a good night’s sleep and not be thinking of all those things that have to get done, I take 2o minutes and prep the night before ( the no tech time, gives me those extra minutes). I make my lunch so I don’t hit the food court. If my teen was heading to school she would be making hers too. I also layout out my clothes for the next day. This week I have been laying out 2 outfits, my workout wear and my outfit for the day. The workout wear reminds to get that 30 minutes of movement in as I start my morning before heading to the office. Self-care is so important. By taking this approach the checklist that would be playing in my head all night is gone. Ever not been able to sleep because you were thinking of everything you had to do the next day? That was so me. This new habit helps me get rid of that list.
Journal Before Bed
For me, one of the things I have been doing for a long time is journalling. It started when I was a teen. It helps me get rid of the stress of the day and reminds me of what I am thankful in that moment. Simply write what you feel and end with gratitude. Find the things you are grateful for that day. Even on the worst of days, you know the kind that would leave you sleepless it helps remind you of what you have and you can go to sleep with a more peaceful heart.
Bed time Rituals
Both my daughter and I have been avid readers since she was a toddler. Bed time was bath and then story time. Bedtime routines definitely help kids develop great sleeping habits. Even I would fall asleep reading a great story. While my teen was in high school we had gotten out of this routine. Both of us felt a longing for this ritual. Earlier this some we hit the book store and bought a few books. Our bedtime rituals are back in place. For us, it works. Bedtime rituals and routines help develop a rhythm that tells you head and body its time for rest.
No Caffeine After 4 pm
How many times have you as a parent had a coffee in the evening and not been able to sleep? Had a kid who had food or drinks that included caffeine and it caused them to bounce off the walls all night? Been there done that. I have one caffeinated beverage in the mornings. The rest of the day I stick to water and herbal teas, my teen does the same.
Take a Sleep Supplement
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Today was a special day here in Toronto. There was a partial solar eclipse. What made this day, even more, assume then the scientific and earthly beauty was they way it brought the community together.
All over the city and on the path of the eclipse, for a few brief hours, politics, the news was put aside to join together and view a beautiful event.
My teen and I headed down to Sunnyside Beach here in Toronto. She had brought a cereal box viewer she had created this morning and we waited for this celestial event. The best part, thanks to Fido’s new data byte deal we also got to watch Bill Nye the Science Guy explain the facts from a location that was getting the total eclipse in the USA. As the sun and moon traveled across the US and Canada, today, people of all stripes, colors, creeds, and affiliations gathered together to share an event. After what has happened over the past few weeks, we needed a moment like this, a moment that would draw people together without thought of politics for a moment in time.
The beautiful part of the day here for me was the sharing of the many ways to watch an eclipse. From a cereal viewer to certified watching glasses, to welders masks, everyone shared what they had brought with them so all could get a view. This is the way it was down on the beach today, on street corners across the US and Canada, in parks and at official viewing events. It brought joy to my heart as something as scientific and as beautiful as an eclipse would draw people together.
My daughter had a great time talking to an astronomy student who was down on the beach next to us, then we had some welders pop by, and a little group gathered sharing all the tools we had so all could participate in a magical moment. Here locally it was kind of expected. In the US, where there has been much hostility I was unsure but it was a blessing to see genuine community sharing a great moment as the NASA cameras went from coast to coast.
We need more of those ordinary moments on camera. More of the simple acts of kindness.
Because this song has been going through my head and since it was 1979 when I saw a total eclipse thought I would share this song.
Last week was some week in this house. It was a painful itchy one. My teen had gone to a pool party with friends and was in a swimsuit all day. She had a great time but can you guess what happened? If you guessed an infection down there, you are right. We really had missed the summer, soaking up the sun, and the pool but dealing with a yeast infection is no fun. For many women, the warmer temperature brings an increased risk of an “itch” that nobody likes to talk about – yeast infections. We really do hate to talk about it, so you know me I tackle the harder conversations.
Surprisingly, yeast infections affect more women than you think! It’s not just my teen dealing with one. Approximately five per cent of women experience reoccurring yeast infections (3 to 4 infections in the last year) and this has a lot to do with heat. The infection occurs when moisture gets trapped and yeast can overgrow, cause itching, burning, and discomfort. If you’ve had one, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
The good news is that with a few simple tips, you can avoid that pesky itch. Most of these my daughter forgot.
Remember to dry off: Relaxing in a hot tub is the perfect way to enjoy a warm, summer evening. However, yeast grows best in a moist environment, making hot tubs a breeding ground for unwanted infections. This means it’s important to dry off well afterward and change into dry clothes right away. Use this same approach when spending the day at the beach or pool.
2. Know your pH: Many vaginal health issues, including odour, itchiness and yeast infections stem from an unbalanced pH. RepHresh™ Gel is a gynecologist recommended product and clinically proven to be pH balanced which can help to eliminate feminine odour and relieve feminine discomfort.
3. Wear cotton undies: Unfortunately, your tight skinny jeans may not be the best option this summer. Warm, tight clothing allows for little oxygen movement making the perfect breeding round for yeast. If you must rock the skinnies, wear cotton underwear.
4. Take healthy measures: RepHresh™ Pro-B reduces the number of urogenital pathogenic bacteria and yeast on vaginal surfaces. It’s clinically tested and works by balancing the yeast and bacteria that are naturally present in a woman’s body to help restore and maintain proper vaginal flora. Try adding one capsule to your daily routine to keep your body on track and ensure nothing slows you down this summer!
When my teen had her itch down under we went in search of both of these. The teen reported the gel definitely helped her with the itch.
Are you ready to beat the summer heat? I would love your feedback if you’ve tried either of these products.
* This post has been sponsored by Church and Dwight, however, all opinions are my own.